Behind every behaviour, there is an emotion
We feel good, bad, happy, anxious..
When that behaviour shows up
In us and in others
Behind those emotions is a need
Need for love, healing, power, pleasure…
When we access that need
We access the true root cause.
Then –
Instead of focusing on behaviour change
We focus on need fulfilment
We focus on the cause and not the symptom.
Wisdom Is –
To Ask:
What is the need that is driving this behaviour?